Seven Years Together and Many More to Go…

Today Shaun and I celebrate our 7th anniversary. Seven years together as a married couple, husband and wife, best friends. Seven years isn’t a long time in the grand view of life, but those years have been packed with a lot of big life events. Plenty of ups and downs, plenty of moments filled with tears (of joy and of pain or upset) and so far we have weathered it all. I think it goes without saying that what doesn’t kill you does make you stronger. At least that is my opinion and with each passing year, we are stronger then ever.

I could say a lot more, but I wont. Sometimes the best things are said with simplicity. So with that, I say Happy 7th Anniversary Shaun! I love you with all my heart and I cannot wait for all of the adventures ahead of us.

Happy Fathers Day!

Happy Fathers Day to some of the most amazing men that I know! 
To my grandfathers, where ever they may be, I love you and miss you so very much. I feel a bit lost without you and miss the little things, like being taught how to properly use a scientific calculator or being told stories as we traveled through Wyoming and Montana about how the Yucca plant and other feathered brush were the Natives hiding and waiting for us. Its those things that will stick with me forever.
To my dad, the man who taught me to look towards the sky and dream. To imagine and dare to to wonder what is out there. Who taught me to love the outdoors, how to fish, to spot a grizzly from a distant hill and to learn how to use a camera. For being an amazing Grandpa who always makes his girls laugh and keep them constantly in wonder.
To my father in law, Patrick, who helped raise and shape the man that I love so much. For welcoming me into his family with open arms and with a few warnings about the family I was gaining (be wary of those Olivers, *wink, wink*). From a special memory of a moment shared at our wedding to a love and appreciation of hockey (and some good humored jabs about my love and intensity for the sport.), to being an amazing grandfather who 
To Shaun, the most amazing husband a girl could ask for. We have been through ups, downs and more moves in our marriage then most but we have survived and had fun doing it. You are an amazing father; kind, patient, always excited to show them something new and always there to pick them up when they stumble. Each day you show them how to dream, how to keep reaching for what they want and how to learn from their mistakes. You make them giggle with your silly stories and songs but you are firm when they need guidance. Such a wonderful father, so much so that I could go on for days. I love you and thank you for all you do!

Happy Fathers Day to all of the amazing men out there! Know that you are loved and appreciated every day.

The Aftermath…

Welcome to the aftermath! Grandma and Grandpa left this morning. Grandma was feeling a bit better nd luckily was able to travel. Unfortunately, the night time didn’t prove to be all that nice to the rest of the Wharton family.  By 2am it was very apparent that both Shaun and Abby were now down with the same bug. That means all but one has been sick this weekend. Here’s to hoping that Grandpa Jerry stays away from this crud!

Shaun’s 36th Birthday

Happy 36th Birthday Shaun! Happy Birthday to the best husband, father and friend anyone could ask for. We certainly hope that you enjoyed your day and evening out with the cutest girls on earth. Love you very much and again… HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Dinner out at Azteca with endless coloring for Ellie.
Ready for tacos at Azteca! Abby’s favorite!
Oh that little head and that rug burn. Its a goof thing she has a cup of lemonade to make life better.
WAIT… THE CAKE IS ON FIRE!
Goofy Daddy surrounded by his super silly girls. Love the hat Shaun!
Silly Daddy… thats not how you put the candles out!
Silly Abby… that’s not how you wear your hat!
Cake mouth!
MMMMMMMMMM CAKE!

Happy 5th Anniversary!

Happy 5th Anniversary…

I cannot believe I am saying 5th anniversary! It feels like only yesterday Shaun and I were married. This is a special year not just because its our 5th but also because it falls on the exact day of our wedding. At this time five years ago I was getting up and enjoying the calm with my sister, Sarita, and Tommie. I was packing up my bags making sure that some made it to Shaun’s room, which was our suite and the rest went with me. We left around 11am and headed to the salon to get our hair and makeup done. Unbeknownst to me, a large brush fire had started causing traffic and road closures. Everyone was worried about telling me but when they did, they were shocked to see a still calm and unaffected bride. I was getting married and as long as Shaun was there waiting for me, nothing else mattered. I weathered the storm and kept myself focused on what mattered most, my soon to be husband.

Not much has changed since then. When the road gets tough and we are faced with challenges, I try to to worry because I know I have Shaun right there with me. He is the cool, calm and level headed person that balances my often emotional and reactive personality. In my mind we are a perfect match and after five years our relationship is better and stronger then it was before.

Luckily the year leading up to our 5th Anniversary has been a bit more tame then it has in the past. Since we celebrated our fourth anniversary we have…

  • Celebrated Ellie’s 1st Birthday and watched her grow. In that year she has learned to talk, speak in sentences, count, learned a few colors and teach us a lot about patience. Yes, she is our go getter and our tester. She loves to test us and can cause some frustration but her smile, hugs and her love of cuddling with mommy makes it all worth it and then some.
  • My dear friends Mackenzie and Jeff were married on July 17th, 2011.  I was a bridesmaid but even more importantly Abby was a flower girl! This was her first time being a flower girl and she loved every moment of it. She still talks about it and asks when she can see handsome Grady again!
  • Abby enjoyed her very first Broadway show… Mary Poppins. We took Grandma Zoe for her birthday and Abby had a blast. She watched every minute of it and was such a little lady. She even sang along to all the songs that she knew!
  • Our house on Hatillo Avenue finally sold. It was sad to say goodbye since I loved that house (just wished it was in a different location) but I know we will be on to bigger things soon!
  • Abby celebrated her 3rd Birthday and she has grown by leaps and bounds since. Abby is learning so much it amazes me. While she is still just learning to write she has memorized all of her alphabet and is now working on numbers. She loves to sing and she loves music. Listening to her sing a long to Adele’s “21” album always makes me smile and giggle.
  • Abby and Ellie went Trick or Treating for the very first time and loved it! We only did a small portion of the Auntie Jen’s neighborhood but that made them completely happy.
  • Abby began her first year of dance classes! Mommy is very proud and it looks like Ellie is taking a liking to it as well! We will have to start her next year though because she is still too little.
  • We enjoyed another trip at Christmas time trip to Montana.This time we came home with a messed up bumper thanks to a nutty old lady in Dillon Montana. Abby and Ellie didn’t get to see as much snow as they would have liked, but we still had the chance to walk around on Main Street, enjoy the Museum of the Rockies and Shaun and I had several days to ourselves. One of which found us in Yellowstone!
  • Abby had her first bee sting! Happy to report that she is not allergic!
  • Shaun and I took our first extended trip without the girls and headed to San Francisco. We missed them very much but it was wonderful to get away and enjoy the time together and I had the chance to see my best friend. I haven’t seen her since Abby’s baby shower in 2008! It had been far too long!
  • Shaun and I had the chance (twice actually) to greet the LA Kings as they came home from series wins, the first time after completing Round 1 of the playoffs and the second after the Kings won the Western Conference!
  • We took Abby for her very first haircut! I shed a few tears but it was worth it!
  • And last but not least… as an early anniversary present… THE KINGS WON THE STANLEY CUP!!!! Best present ever!
So the year has been busy but all of these events occurred in the same city, with the same number of children, in the same house! I have a feeling the year leading up to our sixth will be eventful, maybe even more so then this past year, but I am ready for it! 
Happy Anniversary Shaun! Here is to another five years and then another hundred after that. I love you so much and I am thankful for all that you have done for me and given to me. I cannot wait to see what the next year brings us. What an adventure I am sure it will be!

A Break in the City by the Bay

After the girls were born, Shaun and I made sure to take some time to ourselves. We had date nights and even short weekends away but we had yet to take an extended trip. Well this year we finally did it and we survived the time away from the girls too!

SO… Wednesday night we took off for the “City by the Bay” and despite leaving at nearly 9pm we made it to the hotel just after 2:30am. Not too bad! The following day Shaun headed to Foster City to get a little work in at the Sony offices. I did some driving, shopping and relaxing with my Kindle Fire. I wonder who got the better end of that deal? After work we drove up to the city and started our official vacation away. We checked in to our hotel, which was beautiful, enjoyed some room service and then went for a drive. It was so nice to finally be in San Francisco again!

The next day we woke up late (I had forgotten what that was like). By the time we were ready to leave the room it was lunch time, so we headed over to the Presidio for lunch at the Presidio Social Club. All I can say is… AMAZING. An adult version of Tomato Soup and Grilled cheese as an appetizer and the best crab sandwich I think I have ever had. Very impressed and I highly recommend it. Little fact: The Presidio Social Club was once the site of the enlisted men’s barracks. Good food and a history lesson!



After a wonderful lunch, we decided to walk off a bit of what we ate. Luckily just across the street was the Lucas Arts campus so we took a look around. We didn’t find Luke Skywalker or Han Solo, but we did find a stunning view of the Palace of Fine Arts. We did, however, find our friend Yoda!


After our walk around Lucas Arts, we headed over to a very surprising and exciting find for me, The Disney Family Museum! We were only permitted to take pictures in the main entrance, so there isnt much to show you but the museum was amazing. We should have done it at a time when we had more time but I really enjoyed it. If you love all things Disney, this is the place to go! My favorite spot was the second to last exhibit room. Incredible. I cannot wait to take Abby and Ellie here.




After the museum we headed back to the room to get ready for our evening out. Shaun is an amazing husband and got me tickets to see the San Francisco Ballet perform. I have to give him about a thousand extra points too, just for sitting through the second piece of the night. The ballet showcased three unique pieces and the first and third were spectacular. The first piece was very modern but the dancers were flawless and amazingly strong. The third was more traditional and choreographed my Christopher Wheeldon. I wont get into the second but it was not my taste, at all. All you need to know is that it involved an entire male cast all dressed in pink camouflage with the costume design done by Isaac Mizrahi. After the ballet, we headed to dinner and then back to our room for some much needed rest.

The following day we slept in, yes again, and then headed out to the Legion of Honor. They had a small Victorian childrens book exhibit that we wanted to see as well as Bernini’s “Medusa”. The book collectionf was pretty small and didnt take much time to view so we went to view the “Medusa”. This is its first stop on an American tour and until now most would have to travel to Italy to see it. Its pretty neat to think we were in town at the right time to see it. Before we left I stopped in to see one of my favorite paintings, “Water Lillie’s” by Monet.




After the Legion of Honor we made our way back to the Presidio, stopping at Baker Beach for a photo opportunity close to sunset. Yet another reason I love this city and miss it a lot. Maybe one day we will win the lotto and I can buy a small place in the city. Wouldn’t that be nice?



After a few stops in the Presidio we took a break and enjoyed our hotel room for a few hours and did a little shopping along Market Street and in Union Square. When we found ourselves hungry we went out to Cow Hollow and found a great little Italian place. Hands down the best crab ravioli ever and the dessert… I’m not sure I can even speak of it. Amazing! It was a wonderful way to end the night.

Sunday morning I woke up early, excited to start the day. We were meeting my best friend Tommie and her husband Andrew in Palo Alto for an early lunch. I have not seen Tommie since she threw Abby’s baby shower. All of the trips we had planned prior to this had fallen through for one reason or another and I knew, come hell or high water, that I would see her this time. And I did! But, stupid me forgot to take pictures! I was so excited to see them and we had so much to talk about that I didn’t even think to take pictures. Ugh! Oh well, I have the memories and I will see them again very soon! Lunch was delicious and the conversation was great, so much so that I did not want to go but eventually we had to leave.

On our way home from Palo Alto, we took a drive up the coast and back to the city. It was a perfectly gorgeous day for a drive through the trees and along the coast. From there we drove back to Baker Beach and then headed to diner. We stopped in Cows Hollow again, but this time at a fabulous Thai food place. It was yummy! After dinner we took one last drive around the city and headed across the Golden Gate Bridge. We stopped along the road through Marin Headlands to get a few shots of the bridge at night. It was hard to do since I didn’t have a tripod, but thanks to Shaun I have a few shots that look pretty good. After driving all over the place, we headed back to our room.



It was hard to get up the next morning, knowing that it was time to leave and come home. But we eventually got up, got ready, packed, checked out and said goodbye to San Francisco… for now. On our way out of town we stopped in San Bruno at the Golden Gate National Cemetery (the correct one… don’t ask its an inside joke) and found where my Grandma Taylor’s brother was laid to rest. He died during WWII and was eventually moved here. My grandma never had the chance to travel here to see him, so we stopped to take some pictures for her.



Despite some holiday traffic coming home on the 5, the rest of the trip was pretty uneventful. I sat and finished my book on my Kindle. Something I haven’t had the chance to do in a long time. Finished a great book too, now I am excited to move on to the next one! This weekend was wonderful and it was nice for Shaun and I to have some time alone. Now I cant wait to bring the girls here. Soon I hope!

Giving Thanks: My Wonderful Husband

I am very thankful for my wonderful husband. Every day I feel blessed that he came into my life. Shaun is an amazing person; my best friend and the man I want to spend forever with. I am thankful that he is patient and understanding of the person I am. The hormonal, emotional, wears her heart on her sleeve but completely stubborn person that I am. He has seen me at my worst, whether its recovering from two C-Sections or mourning the loss of a loved one. He has seen me at my best; the moments in life that I will cherish forever, such as our wedding day and the birth of our beautiful girls. Shaun is loving, kind, generous, patient and selfless. My life changed the day we met and I will forever be thankful for that.

Happy Birthday Shaun!

Today was Shaun’s Birthday! Happy 32nd Birthday! Shaun and I made last minute plans to go to a Kings game this evening and boy was it worth it. Tonight the Kings played the Coyotes and it was one heck of a game. It ended in an 8 round shoot out and in the end the Kings won! I think it was all for Shaun and his birthday. They had to make it extra exciting! Happy Birthday Shaun!